what happens if somebody is told they have 2 months to live by their doctor?

Question 1
what happens if somebody is told they have 2 months to live by their doctor?...  I've been talking to a girl online for about 2 months and last week she told me she has a weak heart and that she had an appointment at the doctors as she wasnt feeling great, the next day i asked how it went and she told my she has only 2 months to live :( i asked her what happens now ect and she just said she will just go into hospital when she's weak..is this right?
I really really want to believe her but it all seems abit..i dont know, odd?
I'd hate to think anyone would lie about such a thing :'(

Answers
1)   just believe her for 2 months. - ANDREW

2)   Well, if I only had about 2 months to live, I'd really live. As in really, LIVE. I won't squander in self-pity. I'll just do as much as I can while I still can. And I'm sure that's what most people would too. - Cryptic

3)   What kind of doctor is that? - Sandstorm

4)   maybe she wants to stop talking to you...? have you ever met her? - Shaylyn

5)   I knew a kid with cancer and when they pronounced that there was nothing else they can do and the cancer will win, they sent him home to die there in his own comfort and in his own bed around his friends and family. so i don't know but they are two different situations. - Morgan ♥

6)   Doctors are such pessimists, they give you a year and its worth 10, they give you a day and its worth a year. 2 months? I think she'll be fine. But at least she'll get the chance to live like she was going to die. - Fades to White

7)   It depends on the heart condition. If she does have a heart issue it sounds like something changed in the condition and now she has two weeks or needs a transplant. There's a shortage of hearts and without one she could very well only have 2 months. If she gets really weak, she will end up in the hospital or home care. People online can lie though and it'd be a shame if she was... - luvmylittlefatcat

8)   I don't know this person but I have heard all sorts of strange stories and lies people tell on the internet. Some how I think doctors don't tell you you have 2 months to live... fly... be free! They would be running tests, trying medications. It seems like someone may be needing attention or sympathy. - binksbailey2000

9)   I would be very cautious about believing this story. With heart problems, the Physician normally has no idea what time is left for a patient and for a young person a heart transplant would give them a normal life. - dude I

10)   I would hate to think anyone would lie about something like that too. Well anyway, if you are told you have a few months to live it would be very devastating to say the least. You would want to get your affairs in order...if you have a will and things to will to someone then make sure it's prepared properly. If you have dependents then you would want to make sure that they will be cared for by someone you can trust and will do right by the kids. At a time like this the person may want to have family and friends near, or not; they may want to take one last trip if they can and they will have sad days and good days. There is so much to consider for the person facing this. Sometimes they just need to be near someone who will listen and hold them. It is something we all have to face one day, for some of us it will be unexpected and fast, others will have to live with 'dying' a lot longer. And let's not forget those who will be left behind, a spouse, children, parents etc. It is very hard for them too. Just be there for her... - wildcat68

11)   In my own opinion some people don't go to doctors often even if their condition is worst
Maybe you should ask her if she's telling the truth or better yet see her in person that is if you really care about her - Guztoco

12)   Online, people lie about everything. You have no idea who you're talking to. - It's Pat


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Question 2
how can I get rid of a canker sore?...  I have had this really bad canker sore in my mouth for about a week, and it bothers me to eat and drink. Is there anything I can do to get rid of it?

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1)   Try not to irritate it too much and buy Kanka. It helps with the pain and heals it faster. - Claudia

2)   Don't eat or drink anything with ascorbic acid or Vitamin C in it as this will make the problem worse.. - postres20022000

3)   Your Canker Sour may have gone away before this but...
http://www.dentist.net/cankersore.asp
Butler Gum Canker-X Gel
Patented Triple Action gel for fast pain relief with no stinging or burning!
Fast pain relief with no alcohol and no Benzocaine
Non-prescription Aloe Vera based site specific gel.
Treats canker and mouth sores without stinging or burning.
Protective barrier promotes healing.
Prevents irritation of exposed nerve endings.
Reduces swelling.
Lasts for hours.
Keep out of reach of children - Bella

4)   My Fiancee gets really bad "canker" sores ( in Australia it's ulcers) Here are some things he tries

1. gargle warm salty water at least three times a day
2. use a new toothbrush ( so you dont keep re-infecting yourself)
3. over here we have bonjella a numbing gel applied directly to the ulcer so maybe something similar


One terrific way to try and prevent ulcers is to eat lots of fresh fruit is it really helps.

i hope i've helped :) - Miss_vanshe

5)   swish with a warm sea salt rinse. This is what a dentist would recommend. Also, if you rinse daily with a mouth wash like Listerine, it will cut down or eliminate canker cores all together because it kills bacteria in your mouth..less intense is the vanilla mint or the citrus flavors. - licketyb00

6)   Eating the desired food is vital for your health. You can try supplementing your diet with acai berry, it is not solely a widely tested and acknowledged weight loss product, it is a superfood too. There's a risk free trial available at http://tunach.weightcontrollive.info I have been using it for two weeks now and it is definately working!! - Juan


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Question 3
I think I have a problem,i bleed a little when i pee, and its painful?...  I'm 15, and its been going on a few days.
Its just like a drop
It hurts really bad... and i have to pee a lot, and i don't want to because of the pain ya know?
I am sexually active and have been for about a month...
i have a doctor app the 18th but i cant go any sooner, if its a uti any home things i can do in the mean time?

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1)   You probably have a UTI... see your doctor. - blackskittles8238

2)   i think you could have a STD or killer urine infucktion. - Adam H Rockstar

3)   You probably have an STD. Yes, you don't want to hear this, but you need to see a doctor, before it turns into something worse - Smarter then an average pie

4)   I CAN BE UIT, OR IT CAN BE A STD LIKE gonorrhea and chlamydial , OR SOME KIND OF BAD infectioN - Colby

5)   yes, it may be urinary track infection. it's very common especially if you are not particular with your hygiene. but since you are sexually active, you need to see a doctor and get tested immediately. there are lots of simple and confidential STD testing available. - clarrisea

6)   Urinary tract infections (also called cystitis) in women are very common and often caused by sex- either very vigorous sex (also called honeymooners cystitis) or not urinating right after intercourse. The female urethra- the tube that goes from bladder to outside, is only a few inches long and bacteria can easily be placed there during sex so its very important to pee right after which can flush bacteria out of the bladder. It sounds like the infection you have is already bad enough that you will need a doctor trip for antibiotics, sometimes if its not too bad drinking alot of cranberry juice can get rid of it but is you are bleeding and its very painful its past the drink more fluids and you need antibiotics. These infections can also be caused by tight pants too so don't hesitate in telling your Mom cause she will not automatically know that you are sexually active. Just remember to pee after sex!!! Welcome to the world of things that happen when you are sexually active! I hope you used protection because you can easily get HPV and that is a whole bunch more problems- just check out some of the people asking about stds and hpv. Good luck and be SAFE!! - flannelgirl


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Question 4
Do I have something wrong when my urine is cloudy?...  Hi, I am 23 and the middle of my back has been a little achy these past few weeks. I recently went to the bathroom and my urine was cloudy. Is this normal and should I be worried? What causes this to happen? Thanks for the help!

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1)   DRINK LOTS OF WATER. youre probably very dehydrated, and youre system is working overtime to get out the additives and things like that. if it doesnt stop after a while, go to a doctor - Elizabeth

2)   It is usually phosphate crystals. There is a way to test. If you put a drop or two of vinegar in it and it clears immediately then it is phospate and nothing to worry about unless it continues on for a long time. Phosphate can be an indication of the tendency to have kidney stones so good to watch it. - SethSpeaks

3)   i would get yourself to a doctor. it sounds like u might have an infection. I know a UTI (urinary tract infection) can cause your urine to be cloudy, not sure about making your back hurt, maybe a bladder infection. Like I said, you should see your doc, they'll probably give you antibiotics. - x_rocksta_x

4)   i have the same problem most of the time in winter as we tend to drink less water as we are not thirsty but our system demand water to clear the system you need to drink a lot of water try and drink water form a metal container avoid plastic bottels trust me its not good - princy


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Question 5
Can you tell if your dying?...  by yourself, just by knowing your body. That you feel wasting away faster and changes in your body (not like puberty) but getting harder to breathe, becoming weaker, your heart skiping over beats and almost paralyzing yourself with your thoughts?
Yes but can these things be caused by the imagination? is the imagaintation and your brain powerful enough to shut yourself down?

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1)   IF you are having these symptoms get to a HOSPITAL ASAP.... - postres20022000

2)   The sensations you describe could easily apply to situations short of dying (such as illness or shock or, if you're talking about a long time scale, aging). However, I've heard plenty of anecdotal evidence about people who could sense that their time to die was near, so it's not out of the realm of possibility. - euph777

3)   Every living person is dying with each passing moment. You question is "Am I suffering from an ailment?" Only a physician can tell you if you are and what to do about it. - picador


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