How can I find out the prostitute in Tijuana I had unprotected sex with 10 years has my baby or not?

Question 1
How can I find out the prostitute in Tijuana I had unprotected sex with 10 years has my baby or not?...  10 years ago, My friend took me to Tijuana and while partially drunk had unprotected sex with a cute prostitute in upscale Tijuana club. I deliberately ejaculated my sperm inside her vagina to make her pregnant since she was very pretty. That was last time I saw of her.
Is there a way for me to find out if she got pregnant by me and has a baby? Baby should be about 9 years old by now if she had one.

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1)   Oprah - Melissa

2)   Sounds like the title to a Jerry Springer show.... - Mario

3)   don't worry about it. if she had a baby, she'd find you. you might've ended up on an episode of the maury povich show. - A.O.D

4)   First go to the bar,
or not see online if u know the prostitutes name - FRED

5)   Maury! - Lisbeth

6)   Prostitutes are professionals. They very rarely get pregnant, and if they do, they have abortions because it would take money out of their pocket to have a rug rat. So you can't find out number one, and there is hardly any chance, to the point of being a zero chance, of her having gotten pregnant. Prostitutes in Tijuana aren't really known for their long life spans. She may not even be alive now. - SethSpeaks

7)   Did you try contacting the club you went to? - Neo


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Question 2
All the sudden she is putting me off because I have herpes?...  Long story and will try to make it short. I met this girl that came into town at a party and we really hit it off. One thing lead to another and we hooked up. We stayed in touch and she planned to come see again. In the meantime I had what was my first herpes outbreak. Before she came to see me I called her and told her. I didn’t accuse her, I just let her know that I was just recently diagnosed and was upset. She told me that although she hooked up with me fast, that she wasn’t usually like that and only had one other sex partner in the last 2 years. She said she gets tested yearly and has always been clean. Anyway, I told her she didn’t have to come see me, but she could if she wanted we just couldn’t engage in any sexual activities (I was still in the middle of my outbreak). She came out and had a good time (no sex of course) and she went home. She got tested and all of her tests came back negative. I told her I would still like to see her and she was apprehensive. She said she needed to know if I was the type of guy that hooked up with a lot of girls and I said no. I had only been with 2 other girls besides her since my last serious relationship. Anyway, I told her to think about it and gave her some space. Well, she kept in touch and made the decision to come see me again. We had a good time and used protection (I am on meds too) while she was here. After she came out she contacted me and told me she wasn’t sure about continuing on with me. She said that while she was out to see me that I said and did some things that gave her the impression that I was somewhat of a player. She felt like I was telling her a lot of things I think she wanted to here and she wasn’t sure what to think. She told me that she thinks I am charming and is sure I have no problems meeting girls. She said she isn’t sure that I need her especially since we live in other states and that a serious relationship couldn’t be expected between us. Then her conversation changes to her concerns about my STD. I was really upset because she had been really understanding and cool about everything and now all the sudden it was a problem. I told her we both have other things going on in our lives and having anything deep right now would be difficult. She agreed and said it is not that she wants a serious relationship with me because she is still getting to know me, it’s about the risk. I couldn’t believe she was having an issue with my GH out of no where. She told me if she was really put off by it she would not have come out to see me the last time. She said her biggest fear is if she got GH from me and lost me. She said she would really need my support and how can she expect that when this is so casual. I told her I wouldn’t leave her hanging like that. Our conversation ended on a good note, but I don’t know…

I feel like a piece of sh*t now. I already feel bad about contracting this STD, but now the way she is acting is bringing me low. She said her intentions aren’t to hurt my feelings, but she has concerns and that I need to understand that.

At this point I feel like just letting her go. I don’t want to hurt her physically/emotionally in anyway. I feel like she is making it more complicated than it needs to be. I know there is a risk, but it is minimal when using all precautionary methods…

Am I wrong here? Is she making it too complicated? Or should I be more appreciative that she has been so open minded thus far?
she had her blood tested. She said her OB said that she would have to be having an outbreak to test it and she hasn't had any symptoms. Her blood came back negative for antibodies to type 1/2 HSV2
she said she gets tested with her yearly woman's exam.
I was getting tested for STD's every 6 months. Come to find out the tests weren't as comprehensive as I thought. I guess you have to specifically ask for a HSV2 test...

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1)   I didn't read all that, but there is no common test for herpes, she's lying about that. Many women carry it without even knowing it. - leichenteilchen

2)   she's lying, getting tested for STIs regularly is what a prostitute does not a woman with only one partner, unfortunately a magnifying glass is not conducive to sexual activity although it is getting to be necessary - Harley Drive

3)   Have YOU ever got tested for herpes? It's NOT always the womans fault! Women are more likely than men to get tested fo an std than men are--when was the last time you were to a doctor?

If you got herpes--then get yourself to the doctor and get it treated before you pass it to somebody else.

Herepes can be managed--if you have it....but it cannot be cured....ever think that she may be scared to be with you? - bonnie b

4)   Hey there! I have H as well. I am a woman, so I can definitely give you some perspective here. After reading this situation, I think you are over analyzing this. It is very clear that this woman likes you. The fact that she even came back for a second time and then had sex with you means that she "was" willing to risk it...but then when you said that you didn't want anything "serious", she started to think. She is TOTALLY into you or else she would have not had sex, but let's be honest, there is still A risk-even if the chances are small. Flip the tables. Would you really be willing to risk having a lifetime std for a woman who told you she just wanted to be a friend with benefits? If thats the case, it is much easier, worry-free, and safer to just have "casual sex" with someone who is clear of H.

Don't take it personal. She is just looking out for herself and what could potentially be her future. Give her props for at least putting herself in a vulnerable place with you :-). And it's her right to deal with it or not. - Onyx


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Question 3
13 years old. Do i have breast cancer?...  Ok, so i know the chances of a 13 year old having breast cancer are EXTREMELY low. I am a boy, and my right nipple is quite a bit bigger than my other. Im not overweight, im skinny, so this isnt just a big nipple. Plus, behind my right nipple there is a big circular lump. The circumfirence of it is a little bit bigger than the nipples. When i touch my right nipple it hurts. I can squeeze and rub my left one, it doesnt hurt. It is normal. Sometimes my right nipple will also randomly start hurting, but only for a few seconds. Im kind of worried about this, and i havent told anybody else, thanks.

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1)   LOL!!!hahahah!!! i doubt that guys r capable of having breast cancer...lol!!...hahahaha!!!!!! the same thing happened to me when i was around that age, it's called "Puberty"...hahaha!!!....its gonna happen to ur other nipple later.... - KhmerHero

2)   This sounds like gynomastia.

A perfectly normal, common, hormonal condition that occurs in adolescent and teenage males.

And to the earlier poster, yes, males have breast tissue and can develop breast cancer - generally not until in their 50's or 60's however.

It killed my grandfather, so I would prefer you found it a bit less humourous. - Tarkarri

3)   Guys can get breast cancer but not at such a young age. I think this is normal and nothing to worry about. - Amae

4)   Dear worried, it is very possible that the changes you are experiencing are hormone related. your body is going through a lot of changes at this time, however that being said- please tell someone you trust such as a parent so that theymay take you to the physician to have it checked out, This is nothing to be ashamed or frightened of, just need to make sure you are OK - Eva T


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Question 4
i have this white mucus on my underwear what could this be?...  i notice that i had this for a while. it is white almost clear mucus. i looked at a puberty chart and there is a few stages to puberty. one stage said that there will be a discharge. but i was just wondering if this is normal. my boyfriend and i talked about it and he said it is nothing to worry about because i showed him the chart, but i don't feel comfortable around people in a bikini or anything because of this. what could i do to make it stop? or do you have any other advice?

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1)   This happens to me a lot. It's normal and it happens to all girls. - Little miss sunshine

2)   I believe this is how the vagina cleans itself out naturally - bonnie b

3)   It is normal. If you are about to go to the beach just wear a real thin tampon, enough to block anything from being seen or noticed. Until it passes just wear a thin tampon when necessary. - Melissa

4)   It's a discharge every girl gets it. Welcome to puberty :D
Don't worry i was scared too at first wondering what's this white stuff on my panties. - xBby.Hx


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Question 5
What do you do about a recurring nose bleed?...  

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1)   go to the doctor and find the source of the nose bleed.

you probably have sinus issues, or chronic sinus infections..you probably need that cleared up. or..if you use drugs or otc nasal sprays that can also cause nose bleeds - Fu

2)   If you aren't on medication that causes nose bleeds as a side effect, then cold, dry weather is probably the culprit. Try using a bit of Vaseline or Aquaphor on the end of a Q-tip to coat the inside of your nostrils. It feels odd and goopy and makes it hard to blow your nose, but this will keep the area moisturized and prevent the delicate capillaries in your nasal membranes from breaking as easily.

If you are using prescription nasal sprays, use the Vaseline after you've used the spray for the day and inform your doctor that the nose bleeds are continuing. Other oral medications might also cause them, so if you don't make an appointment just for the nose bleeds, tell your GP at your next check-up.

A humidifier in your bedroom might also help if it's dry air that's causing the bleeds. Be very careful, though, as humidifiers can exacerbate mold allergies. Follow the directions carefully and keep the humidifier very clean to avoid complications. - Rae

3)   First, I'd try to figure out the cause. Hypertension? Nasal dryness? Injury? Medications: Aspirin, NSAIDs, warfarin? Excessive alcohol consumption? Deficiency of clotting agents like Vitamin K? Picking your nose, lol? If it could be these, focus on treating the cause.

Treatments? Products are available to stop nosebleeds. NasalCease, QuickClot Nosebleed, or a phenylephrine nasal spray may help. Good luck! - JBi

4)   I used to get nose bleeds all the time for no reason. I'm talking years after awhile they stooped. But if your doing something like white powder STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - Steve


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